I am because we are
We are the women of the world
We are the mothers, grandmothers, aunts, sisters, cousins, wives
We are the teachers, facilitators, the nurturers
The farmers, gatherers, warrior protectors of our loved ones
We are them that hold the spaces, hold the stories - pass them on
We are the healers, the ones who guide with wisdom and experience
We are resourceful and resilient, fierce and devoted
We are believers in the spirit of peace and unity
The ones who build community
The light is coming
Every season has its purpose, and I took the time this winter season to shed the things that no longer serve me, whether it was by purging my closets, cabinets and pantry - to intentionally shedding the mindsets that held me back, and kept me small. This one (playing small) has been particularly difficult for me through the years, for a number of reasons: culture, religion and society being big ones - and though I have worked through those boxes for many years - as a woman with ADHD, rejection sensitivity is a real thing - but I am proud of the woman I am, with all the trip-ups and bruises, mistakes and lessons along the way - I can truly say - I am perfectly imperfect and growing every day.
Perfection is no longer the goal, progress is - Progress is the goal.
La, la, la, la la Bamba
Music is a vibe. It’s energy. It speaks to our emotions, our soul. It’s deeper than verbal comprehension. It can elevate us, bring us to pure ecstasy and move us to tears. Music remains when dementia takes communication with words away. Music soothes, heals, aligns. Music is magic.
So I invite those of you who are worried about understanding the language to untangle your minds and hearts from the divisive rhetoric of the last two+ decades. Remember that humans have more in common than not - and music is one of the most unifying things we have as humans (that and food!)
End of year reflection 2025
New years resolutions have never worked for me, I need slower more intentional transitions toward whatever it is I want to accomplish, what I learned is that January 1st is the wrong time for me to implement change.